{"id":1433,"date":"2026-08-13T18:03:04","date_gmt":"2026-08-13T15:03:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bentanofficial.com.tr\/index.php\/2026\/08\/13\/ben-hadiseyim-sana-her-gun-kahvalti-hazirlayamam-hadise-hakli\/"},"modified":"2026-08-13T18:03:04","modified_gmt":"2026-08-13T15:03:04","slug":"ben-hadiseyim-sana-her-gun-kahvalti-hazirlayamam-hadise-hakli","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bentanofficial.com.tr\/index.php\/2026\/08\/13\/ben-hadiseyim-sana-her-gun-kahvalti-hazirlayamam-hadise-hakli\/","title":{"rendered":"\u201cBen Hadise\u2019yim, sana her g\u00fcn kahvalt\u0131 haz\u0131rlayamam\u201d  Hadise hakl\u0131!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cBen Hadise\u2019yim, sana her g\u00fcn kahvalt\u0131 haz\u0131rlayamam\u201d  Hadise hakl\u0131! konusunda dikkat \u00e7eken geli\u015fmeler ya\u015fan\u0131yor.<\/p>\n<h2>S\u00fcrecin Arka Plan\u0131<\/h2>\n<p>G\u00fcncelleme Tarihi: Nisan 25, 2023 09:03 \u25ca Onur Ba\u015ft\u00fcrk: Olay\u0131 bu \u015fekilde yorumlayarak meseleyi \u201c\u00dcnl\u00fc kad\u0131n evde kahvalt\u0131 yapar m\u0131 yapmaz m\u0131\u201d ikilemine indirgiyoruz, ki bu yanl\u0131\u015f bir bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131. Mesele bu de\u011fil. \u00dcnl\u00fc ya da \u00fcns\u00fcz fark etmez; kad\u0131nlar kahvalt\u0131 haz\u0131rlamakla y\u00fck\u00fcml\u00fc de\u011fil evde. Erkek de yapabilir pek\u00e2l\u00e2.<\/p>\n<p>Ayr\u0131ca Hadise\u2019nin \u00f6yle dedi\u011fini sanmam. Tam aksine, \u201cNiye sadece ben kahvalt\u0131 haz\u0131rlayay\u0131m ki?\u201d demi\u015ftir. \u25ca \u00d6m\u00fcr Gedik: C\u00fcmleyi \u015f\u00f6yle d\u00fczeltiyorum; \u201cBen bir kad\u0131n\u0131m, g\u00f6revim kahvalt\u0131 haz\u0131rlamak de\u011fil, bir g\u00fcn sen bir g\u00fcn ben haz\u0131rlar\u0131z kahvalt\u0131y\u0131.\u201d Bunun \u00fcnl\u00fc olmakla alakas\u0131 yok, her kad\u0131n bunu diyebilir, demeli de.<\/p>\n<p>\u25ca Sava\u015f \u00d6zbey: Olumsuz konu\u015fmu\u015f Hadise. \u201cHer g\u00fcn kahvalt\u0131 haz\u0131rlayamam\u201d yerine \u201cBen de yar\u0131n iki g\u00f6zl\u00fc yumurta istiyorum\u201d dese, bence Mehmet Din\u00e7erler de kalk\u0131p ona kahvalt\u0131 haz\u0131rlard\u0131. Bununla birlikte, evlilik ya da ili\u015fki biraz b\u00f6yle olmal\u0131 bence.<\/p>\n<h2>Sonu\u00e7<\/h2>\n<p>Zaten y\u00fcr\u00fcmedi, y\u00fcr\u00fctemediler. \u25ca Orkun \u00dcn: Yahu erke\u011fi kad\u0131n\u0131 yok bu i\u015fin. \u0130steyen haz\u0131rlar kahvalt\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Buna g\u00f6re, i\u0307steyen girer mutfa\u011fa. Ba\u015f\u0131ma bir \u015fey gelmeyecekse hakl\u0131 Hadise sanki ya. Her g\u00fcn her g\u00fcn ben bile kahvalt\u0131 haz\u0131rlayamam.<\/p>\n<p>\u015eiddet uygulayan ceza almal\u0131Defne Samyeli, k\u0131z\u0131 Derin Talu\u2019nun sevgilisi Emircan \u015eahin taraf\u0131ndan darp edildi\u011fi iddias\u0131n\u0131 do\u011frulad\u0131, \u015fiddetin tolere edilemeyece\u011fini s\u00f6yledi, yasal s\u00fcre\u00e7 i\u00e7in de k\u0131z\u0131n\u0131n r\u0131zas\u0131n\u0131 beklediklerini yazd\u0131. Buna g\u00f6re, olay\u0131 nas\u0131l yorumluyorsunuz? Derin neden susuyor?<\/p>\n<h2>Geli\u015fmenin Detaylar\u0131<\/h2>\n<p>Olay mahkemeye gider mi? \u25ca \u00d6m\u00fcr Gedik: Bir k\u0131z \u00e7ocu\u011fu annesi olarak Defne\u2019nin neler hissetti\u011fini, ne kadar zor bir d\u00f6nemden ge\u00e7ti\u011fini anlayabiliyorum. Buna g\u00f6re, hi\u00e7bir insan \u015fiddeti ya\u015famas\u0131n, hi\u00e7bir anne \u00e7ocu\u011funa \u015fiddet g\u00f6sterilmesi ile s\u0131nanmas\u0131n.<\/p>\n<p>Mahkemeye tabii ki gitmeli bu olay, kim su\u00e7luysa ceza almal\u0131. \u25ca Sava\u015f \u00d6zbey: Belli ki gitmeyecek mahkemeye. Defne k\u0131z\u0131n\u0131n r\u0131zas\u0131n\u0131 bekliyor ama Derin h\u00e2l\u00e2 sessiz.<\/p>\n<p>Edinilen bilgilere g\u00f6re, yaz\u0131k, \u00e7ok mu \u00e2\u015f\u0131k acaba? \u25ca Onur Ba\u015ft\u00fcrk: \u015eiddet yeni neslin ili\u015fkilerinin ba\u015frol\u00fc olmaya ba\u015flad\u0131 fark\u0131nda m\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z? Ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131 ger\u00e7ekten bir ili\u015fki mi, ondan da emin de\u011filim.<\/p>\n<h2>Konuya \u0130li\u015fkin Di\u011fer Bilgiler<\/h2>\n<p>Ama t\u00fcm bunlar son derece vahim. \u25ca Orkun \u00dcn: Vallahi g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fcn sorunu bu. A\u015fk ile \u015fiddeti birbirine kar\u0131\u015ft\u0131ran erkek ve k\u0131zlar var etrafta. Yaz\u0131k.<\/p>\n<p>Erkek \u015fiddete ba\u015fvuruyorsa a\u00e7\u0131k a\u00e7\u0131k \u00e7aresizli\u011finden ve \u00f6zg\u00fcven eksili\u011findendir. Cezas\u0131 neyse de \u00e7ekmelidir! Konuya ili\u015fkin olarak, hata uzayl\u0131larda!Kayahan\u2019\u0131n k\u0131z\u0131 Beste A\u00e7ar, bir kez daha uzayl\u0131larla temas kurdu\u011fu a\u00e7\u0131klamas\u0131yla g\u00fcndeme oturdu.<\/p>\n<p>Kat\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 programda uzayl\u0131lar\u0131 \u201cuzun boylu ve gri\u201d diye tan\u0131mlayan A\u00e7ar, ko\u015fulsuz sevgiden ve enerjiden de bahsetti. Enerji ile g\u00f6z renginin de\u011fi\u015ftirilebilece\u011fini, hatta kesilen kolun yeniden \u00e7\u0131kabilece\u011fini \u00f6ne s\u00fcrd\u00fc. Beste A\u00e7ar ne diyor, anlayan var m\u0131?<\/p>\n<h2>Beklentiler ve \u00d6ng\u00f6r\u00fcler<\/h2>\n<p>Buna g\u00f6re, \u25ca Onur Ba\u015ft\u00fcrk: \u201cUzun boylu ve gri\u201d diye tan\u0131mlanmak uzayl\u0131lar\u0131n g\u00fcc\u00fcne gitmi\u015f olabilir. Neden gri acaba? Beste Han\u0131m\u2019a \u00f6yle g\u00f6r\u00fcnm\u00fc\u015f olabilirler mi? Her \u015fey bir yana, madem uzayl\u0131larla bu denli temas halinde neden TV programlar\u0131na kat\u0131l\u0131p duruyor h\u00e2l\u00e2?<\/p>\n<p>Ben olsam ba\u015fka gezegene giderdim. Ayr\u0131ca, \u25ca Sava\u015f \u00d6zbey: Ben anlad\u0131m galiba. Single\u2019\u0131 m\u0131, alb\u00fcm\u00fc m\u00fc ne \u00e7\u0131k\u0131yor.<\/p>\n<p>Menajer demi\u015f ki, \u201cBuradan y\u00fcr\u00fc\u201d. Zaten b\u00fct\u00fcn d\u00fc\u011fmelere ayn\u0131 anda bas\u0131yor g\u00fcndem olmak i\u00e7in. Konuya ili\u015fkin olarak, kad\u0131n meslekta\u015flar\u0131na sald\u0131r\u0131p \u201cBen klibimde giyindim\u201d vurgulad\u0131.<\/p>\n<h2>Uzman De\u011ferlendirmesi<\/h2>\n<p>Ses getirecek ne varsa yap\u0131yor. Uzayl\u0131larda hata. Ka\u00e7\u0131r\u0131p ka\u00e7\u0131r\u0131p b\u0131rak\u0131yorlar bu tipleri. Koy Sat\u00fcrn\u2019e, orada kals\u0131n karde\u015fim!<\/p>\n<p>\u00d6te yandan, \u25ca Orkun \u00dcn: Mis gibi kafas\u0131 var Beste Han\u0131m\u2019\u0131n. \u201cKopan bir kol bile enerjiyle tekrar \u00e7\u0131kabilir, g\u00f6z rengi de\u011fi\u015ftirilebilir\u201d diyor. Yok ya, ba\u015fka? G\u00fcl\u00fcp ge\u00e7elim bayram bayram&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>\u25ca \u00d6m\u00fcr Gedik: Sevgiden, enerjiden bahsetmek g\u00fczel de bu kadar abartmak, fiziken m\u00fcmk\u00fcn olmayan \u015feylerden s\u00f6z etmek nas\u0131l bir \u015fey anlamad\u0131m. Hadi uzayl\u0131lar\u0131 bile kabul ederim de enerjiyle kesilen kolu yeniden \u00e7\u0131karmay\u0131 kimse kimseye anlatmas\u0131n. Madonna \u2018K\u0131z\u0131m benim gibi olmas\u0131n\u2019 diye \u00e7abalam\u0131\u015fMadonna\u2019n\u0131n 26 ya\u015f\u0131ndaki k\u0131z\u0131 Lourdes Leon, \u201cAnnem kontrol manya\u011f\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n<h2>\u00d6ne \u00c7\u0131kan Noktalar<\/h2>\n<p>B\u00fct\u00fcn hayat\u0131ma kar\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Art\u0131k kendi param\u0131 kazan\u0131yorum ve ondan kurtuldum\u201d dedi. Her t\u00fcrl\u00fc \u00e7\u0131lg\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131n adresi Madonna k\u0131z\u0131na ne bask\u0131 yapm\u0131\u015f olabilir?<\/p>\n<p>\u25ca Orkun \u00dcn: Vallahi ana baba olunca, kendin ne kadar \u00e7\u0131lg\u0131n bir hayat ya\u015fad\u0131ysan evlad\u0131n tam tersi olsun istiyorsun san\u0131r\u0131m. Madonna da b\u00f6yle bir strateji izlemi\u015f belli. \u201cBenim gibi olmas\u0131n\u201d diye \u00e7abalam\u0131\u015f.<\/p>\n<p>\u00d6te yandan, ama y\u00fczde 80 ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131z oluyor b\u00f6yle dayatmalar. \u25ca \u00d6m\u00fcr Gedik: \u201cAnnem di\u011fer \u00fcnl\u00fclerin \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc i\u00e7in benim \u00fczerimde bask\u0131 kurdu\u201d da demi\u015f Lourdes ve bir yandan da annesine hak vermi\u015f. Madonna, k\u0131z\u0131 bu renkli ve tehlikeli ortama kurban gitmesin diye korkmu\u015f belli ki.<\/p>\n<h2>Devam\u0131<\/h2>\n<p>Ama di\u011fer yanda da kendi hayat tarz\u0131 ile k\u0131z\u0131na uygulad\u0131\u011f\u0131 tav\u0131r tam bir tezat i\u00e7ermekte. \u00d6te yandan, k\u0131z da \u015fa\u015f\u0131rm\u0131\u015f zaten do\u011fal olarak. \u25ca Onur Ba\u015ft\u00fcrk: Bu son bir \u015fey de\u011fil ki.<\/p>\n<p>Madonna\u2019n\u0131n \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131 kontrol manya\u011f\u0131 oldu\u011fu y\u0131llard\u0131r bilinir, bu konuda parodiler bile yap\u0131ld\u0131 durdu. \u25ca Sava\u015f \u00d6zbey: Anne-k\u0131z psikolojisi biraz tuhaf bir etkile\u015fim. Bilemiyoruz k\u0131z m\u0131 hakl\u0131 yoksa Madonna\u2019ya sorsak o ne anlat\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Annen Madonna i\u015fte, k\u0131r dizini otur bence. Mavi tik i\u00e7in hepsi \u00f6deme yapacakTwitter, paras\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6demeyen abonelerin mavi tiklerini kald\u0131rmaya ba\u015flad\u0131. Demet Akal\u0131n, Zafer Alg\u00f6z, Hayko Cepkin gibi \u00fcnl\u00fclerin hesaplar\u0131ndan mavi tik silindi.<\/p>\n<h2>Devam\u0131<\/h2>\n<p>Demet Akal\u0131n, Elon Musk\u2019a \u201cSen yokken biz vard\u0131k, ben t\u0131ks\u0131z da Demet Akal\u0131n\u2019\u0131m, bizi herkes tan\u0131r\u201d diyerek kafa tuttu. Zafer Alg\u00f6z ise \u201cMahkemede g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr\u00fcz \u0130lhan (Elon)! \u0130lhan\u2019\u0131n mavi tiki yerine Be\u015fikta\u015f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n kartal\u0131n\u0131 koyuyorum\u201d vurgulad\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Sizce \u00fcnl\u00fcler mavi tiklerini geri almak i\u00e7in \u00f6deme yapar m\u0131? \u25ca Orkun \u00dcn: Twitter prestijini biraz d\u00fczeltirse, evet \u00f6derler para. Ama \u015fu an i\u00e7in gereksiz geliyor bana. Hem ay\u0131p ya.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cVerilen \u015fey geri al\u0131nmaz\u201d felsefesine ne oldu Elon? \u0130n\u015fallah benimkine dokunmazs\u0131n. Konuya ili\u015fkin olarak, \u25ca Sava\u015f \u00d6zbey: Protesto ediyorsan toptan \u00e7\u0131kacaks\u0131n Twitter\u2019dan.<\/p>\n<h2>Devam\u0131<\/h2>\n<p>\u00d6yle day\u0131lanmayla olmaz. Nas\u0131l kablolu TV\u2019ye, internete, para veriyorsan Twitter\u2019da ayr\u0131cal\u0131kl\u0131 olmaya da bay\u0131lacaks\u0131n. Bence i\u00e7lerine sindiremedikleri, halkla e\u015fitlenmek.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cNas\u0131l yani, ben \u00fcnl\u00fcy\u00fcm, ben de herkes gibi para m\u0131 \u00f6deyece\u011fim mavi tik i\u00e7in?\u201d demeye getiriyorlar. \u25ca Onur Ba\u015ft\u00fcrk: Hepsi t\u0131p\u0131\u015f t\u0131p\u0131\u015f \u00f6deme yapacak. \u015eu an bo\u015funa konu\u015fuyorlar.<\/p>\n<p>\u25ca \u00d6m\u00fcr Gedik: \u00d6zellikle Zafer Alg\u00f6z\u2019\u00fcn \u2018mavi tik yerine Be\u015fikta\u015f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n kartal\u0131n\u0131 koyuyorum\u2019 c\u00fcmlesine bay\u0131ld\u0131m. Ben de ayn\u0131 tavr\u0131 sergilemek isterdim ama mavi tik olmamas\u0131n\u0131n etkile\u015fimi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcrece\u011finden endi\u015fe ederek giden mavi tikimi geri almak i\u00e7in ba\u015fvuru yapt\u0131m. Hayat\u0131m\u0131z sosyal medya, hesaplar\u0131n iyili\u011fi i\u00e7in mavi tiklerini geri almaya ba\u015flayanlar \u00e7o\u011falacakt\u0131r diye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorum.<\/p>\n<h2>Devam\u0131<\/h2>\n<p>Bu arada Elon Musk, Lebron James ve Stephen King gibi baz\u0131 \u00f6nemli kullan\u0131c\u0131lar\u0131n mavi tiklerinin kalmas\u0131 i\u00e7in \u00f6demeyi kendisinin yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131klad\u0131. Global \u015f\u00f6hretin g\u00f6z\u00fc k\u00f6r olsun! Bunun \u015fakas\u0131 olmazSinan Ak\u00e7\u0131l, Danla Bili\u00e7\u2019in program\u0131nda d\u00f6rt ki\u015fiyle imam nik\u00e2hl\u0131 oldu\u011funu duyurdu ve ekrandan \u201cBo\u015f ol\u201d diyerek e\u015flerinden bo\u015fand\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>\u015eaka m\u0131 yapt\u0131 Ak\u00e7\u0131l, yoksa ger\u00e7ekleri mi s\u00f6yledi? \u25ca Sava\u015f \u00d6zbey: Sinan da medyayla oynamas\u0131n\u0131 bilen bir g\u00fcndem sihirbaz\u0131. Biliyor do\u011fru zamanda ne \u00e7\u0131k\u0131\u015f yapaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Faz\u0131l Say gibi bir m\u00fczik dehas\u0131na sald\u0131rmas\u0131 falan da bundan. Yoksa bilmiyor mu y\u00fcz\u00fcne s\u00f6ylemeden dini nik\u00e2h at\u0131lamayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131? \u25ca Orkun \u00dcn: Yani \u015faka de\u011fildir, ger\u00e7ektir.<\/p>\n<h2>Devam\u0131<\/h2>\n<p>Baz\u0131 konular\u0131 dillendirince garipsiyoruz biz, oysa \u00e7o\u011fu ki\u015fi destekler bu olay\u0131. Buna g\u00f6re, kald\u0131 ki zorla m\u0131 imam nik\u00e2h\u0131 k\u0131ym\u0131\u015f Sinan? Ya kar\u015f\u0131 taraf inanc\u0131 gere\u011fi buna zorlad\u0131ysa onu?<\/p>\n<p>O zaman kimi ele\u015ftirece\u011fiz? \u25ca \u00d6m\u00fcr Gedik: Sinan inanc\u0131 gere\u011fi d\u00f6rt ki\u015fiyle imam nik\u00e2h\u0131 k\u0131yd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yledi. Ama yay\u0131ndaki \u201cbo\u015f ol\u201d muhabbetinin espri oldu\u011fu da ortada.<\/p>\n<p>\u25ca Onur Ba\u015ft\u00fcrk: Hem ayn\u0131 anda birden fazla insanla ili\u015fkisi oldu\u011funu itiraf etmi\u015f hem de \u00e7ok e\u015fli oldu\u011funu. Bunun \u015fakas\u0131 olmaz.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cBen Hadise\u2019yim, sana her g\u00fcn kahvalt\u0131 haz\u0131rlayamam\u201d Hadise hakl\u0131! konusunda dikkat \u00e7eken geli\u015fmeler ya\u015fan\u0131yor. S\u00fcrecin Arka Plan\u0131 G\u00fcncelleme Tarihi: Nisan 25, 2023 09:03 \u25ca Onur Ba\u015ft\u00fcrk: Olay\u0131 bu \u015fekilde yorumlayarak meseleyi \u201c\u00dcnl\u00fc kad\u0131n evde kahvalt\u0131 yapar m\u0131 yapmaz m\u0131\u201d ikilemine indirgiyoruz, ki bu yanl\u0131\u015f bir bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131. Mesele bu de\u011fil. \u00dcnl\u00fc ya da \u00fcns\u00fcz fark [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":1434,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_is_manset":"","_is_son_dakika":"","_is_one_cikan":"","_is_gunun_secimleri":"","_is_cok_okunan":"","_is_sag_widget":"","_tanhaber_views":14,"footnotes":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1433","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-magazin"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bentanofficial.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1433","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bentanofficial.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bentanofficial.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bentanofficial.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bentanofficial.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1433"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/bentanofficial.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1433\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bentanofficial.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1434"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bentanofficial.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1433"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bentanofficial.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1433"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bentanofficial.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1433"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}